I have to try very hard not to point out the fact that the world won’t end if you don’t pay a bill six weeks before it’s due, or say something like “it’ll keep to tomorrow”, as this will just increase his anxiety and stress.ĮNTP looks up to somehow magnetically attracts my attention and I seek her approval. What you hear from him when he’s in Te mode are dire prophecies of death and disaster if the task in question isn’t completed speedily and accurately. Even though it bugs the hell out of me, the relentless nagging does make me get stuff done, if only to shut him up for a while! There is also a powerful immediacy to his drive to complete tasks that he sees as important it has to be done NOW! To be fair, he drives himself just as hard and can spend hours grappling with complex Sensing-type activities, such as making travel bookings or doing the finances. I hadn’t thought of it that way, but this is very accurate for me since my partner is an ENTP. Since Te is their Id function, they “hound” me to get stuff done because they cannot relax until they feel that aspect is taken care of. Whereas with an ENTP, they negatively inspire me to use my Te. I don’t get the impression that ISFJs work in this way for you though…and ESTPs have yet to inspire or force me to develop Te more so that can’t be the whole theory or there would be two types for everyone. Also, I have a close INFP friend (as well as an INFP mother)–neither one have done well so far with ENTPs–they are too far apart on the spectrum of Fi to be able to really like each other or benefit from each other. Now this is incredibly limited experience so it may be unique to me rather than universal, but I would be interested in seeing what other people say. My experience (INFJ here) is that I admire and really like ENTJs, but they don’t really inspire me to get things done or to use my Te more. I thought his idea was that your 7th (superego) function should be the other person’s 6th (Id) function for best growth (although maybe not necessarily romanticism) in relationships. I would be interested in hearing Blake chime in on this. I think if I wasn’t working on my Fi, I’d be the definition of immorality. ignoring 7th function is sign of unhealthy. this is also very hard.ĭoing super ego minimum seems to turn one into a healthy person. Try to be giving and generous to people in need, like homeless people. Try to care more about family and look after them if they need anything. by not putting them to near death experience. I try to push aside the urge where I wanna torture every living things. I can’t completely put myself in their emotional shoes but I try my best as much as I can. for me, I try to be caring and patient by listening to people and understand where they’re coming from. Right? if you put 7th function in dominant position and put your dominate function in their auxiliary.įi. it’s like she knows what’s right and wrong instinctively without understanding why(using Ti) It seems like my ISFP wife was born with morals installed in her. So, according to Blake’s theory, ESTP look up to ISFPĪnd 7th function is something we all need to work on.Īnd it makes sense how that is for everyone.īecause I consider Fi as moral, and caring for people’s emotional needs.
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